Friday, February 7, 2025

The Day of Small Nonsense.

 Today was one of those days where one thing just kind of rolls into another thing, and before you know it, the day is gone. Tim had an appointment to get the car inspected. He got it inspected a couple weeks ago, and they told him that it needed a new inner tie rod end. He dutifully bought the parts and set to work. Except that he discovered that while it showed minor wear, it was in his opinion, perfectly fine. He used to hold an inspection license. He used to do inspections, back in the day before he became a machinist. (He went to school for that because being a mechanic was a dead end job, working for someone who was trying to squeeze every bit of profit he could from his workers). So he became a machinist, and then Reagan put NAFTA in to play and all those well paying machinists jobs left the country. After being laid off from one machinist job after another, in frustration he said, "I will never again tie my future to a company." Because of these layoffs (4 of them in 3 years), we were afraid of losing our house, and began to sock every bit of money into paying off our house loan, and we got it done just a matter of months before he got laid off again, a matter of months before the Crash of 2008, when the price of houses plummeted, and he discovered that houses were being sold for pennies on the dollar. We bought our first house for $2000. Of course, it had a hole in the bathroom floor that went clear through to the basement. We wound up having to jack up the house and install new beams under it, and that's one spooky thing, being in a basement, jacking up a whole house and hearing that creeeeeeeaaaaakkk of a house leaving its foundation. My sister was in college by that point, and her husband came and worked for us on Saturdays, and taught Tim a whole lot. The plan was to fix that house up and then rent it, and then winnow the rents (It was a two unit) into the purchase of another house, except Tim found another house before we got it done and he pestered to buy it, and, as usual, I gave in because I got tired of him arguing the point. We signed the papers the day after I found out I had cancer. It was too late to call it off without losing a bunch of money that we didn't have to lose, but strangely, once it was signed, we had someone call and ask if we, by chance, had a place for rent, and Tim said yes. When he walked down to that building, an old friend from highschool happened to be walking by and said, "Tim! I didn't know you lived here!" and Tim explained that he didn't, but that he was getting ready to show an apartment, and the old friend said, "I am looking for a place to live!!!" and so both apartments were rented that night, and we didn't even have time to put an ad in the paper. It took a long time to fix the first house but the rents from the second house covered all that, and Tim was laid off so he had plenty of time, and all this kept him from getting too bitter about the loss of his rosy future as a machinist. Then came a house down the street went on the market...and then over on the south side and then...well...we got ourselves a business out of the deal. Tim also got called back to work. So, between the two of things, we were hopping busy, and have remained that way until this very day.

But...I digress...back to the tie rod end...Tim looked at it, and lo, the man was pissed.  He came into the house. "I'm not changing that!" he said in disgust. "There's nothing wrong with it." So today he took the car in to be inspected at another inspection site, and the car passed just fine, which made his day. He does love to be right. (Explanation: some inspections stations gamble that if they fail a vehicle, the customer will pay them to fix it.)

We dropped off some paperwork, and then headed over to spend the afternoon at the rehab putting together the plumbing. When we finished for the day, we headed for Lowe's to pick up the stuff we needed for tomorrow. 

Then I was off to get a haircut, and then to get the grocery shopping done for Superbowl Sunday. We have friends coming over for a meal and the game. 

The Big Nonsense:

My oldest daughter found this one. https://www.youtube.com/@AssemblyRequiredPodcast. She's is very good and you can subscribe to the channel at no cost. What I most like about her is her unwavering faith that we can come together and push back against what is happening. That is a hopeful thing, and I think that people really are looking to recapture some amount of hope.

Don't forget to drop your links in the comments.

Joan? Are you still able to comment?



27 comments:

  1. I have never lived in a state the didn't do their own car inspections. They've always been state run, which sounds a whole lot less open to corrupt inspectors. Good for Tim for knowing whereof he speaks. We used to live in Seattle, earthquake country, and our 1920 house was not bolted to the foundation, just sitting on it. It had survived one earthquake, but after the second, we got a guy out to fix it. He pulled the walls down in the basement and discovered the entire end of the house was supported by a 2x4. They had to jack the house up to add support, I was in it, and had to run out because it upset my inner ear so much. So yes, house jacking is very creepy.

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    1. Here, the state issues licenses to mechanics to inspect on behalf of the state.

      Jacking the house up made me sick to my stomach. It was plain scary. I really thought all of us were going to be crushed. The guys thought I was over reacting. All these years later, I am glad to say they were right.

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  2. Stacy Abrams has always been a valued go to.

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    1. She is such a calm, reasoned voice, isn't she? What a president she would have made.

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  3. You've certainly found a way through the difficulties of life.

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    1. We bumbled and stumbled but we did okay. I hope we can get through this hard time.

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  4. Stacey Abrams, I like her so much, she lifts me up. I always enjoy your personal stories.

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  5. Oh my GOSH! I can't believe all you've gone through. And goodness! $2000 for a house??? That is UNREAL! How awesome that it all turned out so well.
    But... ummm.... Cancer?

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  6. You might live even longer if you stay out of basements that seem to be making big noises. Ack! Even with Tim being bounced around with jobs, you've save a bundle many times over with what Tim knows about inspectors and cars. What a poop that the inspector station wanted to sell you an unneeded tie rod. Guess he lost out, eh? I pray federal judges will keep our country from going into a sinkhole. Today he's wanting to regulate drinking straws?! Linda in Kansas

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  7. What a great story. I enjoyed reading about how you evolved into your property business, turning misfortune into opportunities.

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  8. If there is one thing certain about life it is that it is full of surprises!

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  9. I think if we all sat down, and wrote out the stories of our lives, we would all have amazing tales, especially once we reach a certain age, and have the ability to look back with curiosity. Start with a timeline as a "table of contents" and keep adding in what details we can remember. I am sure we all have happy and horror in our stories. I liked John Gray's post about thinking of all the people and the things that happened in our lives for which to be grateful. They've made us who we are.

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  10. In another, better, parallel universe, Stacy Abrams is president.
    You and Tim are smart, hardworking people. My husband did not want to be part of someone else's company either and he built his own. Another way our men are similar.

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  11. I do like Stacy Abrams. You and Tim have had an interesting and exciting life. Good for you!

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  12. When we lived in Iowa we had to have a new-ish house "mud jacked" and I wonder if that is the same thing (?)

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  13. Those were some seriously incredible coincidences there!

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  14. I wondered how you got into the rental business! Talk about pulling yourselves up by the bootstraps, wow.

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  15. I took a look at the link and thought, that woman looks familiar, so I looked her up. I've seen her on TV, probably CNN. She talks sense.
    You guys work hard. I can't imagine a house selling for $2000, but how could you pass it up, especially when you and your husband are handy. I imagine the people of Warren appreciate that rentals available through you guys, well maintained, and honest landlords. Well done.
    I was going to put my condo on the market last week and there was a flood, from two floors above. I cried and I probably swore. Sigh.

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  16. Hi Debbie, I think Comments still recognizes me! For anyone who isn’t sick of political analysis yet and likes it served with a helping of clever and funny, have a look at this. Just make sure beverages have been swallowed first:

    https://substack.com/@closertotheedge/note/p-154501961?utm_source=notes-share-action&r=53ldq

    I’m off to check out Stacy Abrams’ podcast. Breathe deep and relax this weekend! Joan

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    1. And if you want to vote with your pocketbook:

      https://www.goodsuniteus.com/

      Shows you which companies support which party

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  17. Hard work and a little luck go a long way.

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  18. It's been quite a journey, hasn't it? Hard work, good timing, & a bit of luck go a long way. Good on ya both!

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  19. Only someone with real knowledge would pick up the 'not really worn' tie rod end.
    Your labours paid off in the long run. Fell free to slap anyone who questions your property ownership or suggests you are so lucky.

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  20. Debby, for a heart lifting post, check out Boud's entry on 'The Serviceberry'. A lot of us engage in something that actually has a name… gift economy. So positive! Kris in Ohio
    https://fieldfen.blogspot.com/2025/02/the-shadbush-shad-and-gift-economy.html

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  21. Good for Tim for knowing what a perfectly good tie rod end (whatever that is) should look like! I guess a good rule of thumb is, if the inspection place tells you something needs fixing, get a second opinion.

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