Today was a bit of a break. Mattie called. She was unable to round up a driver for Rudy's appointment in Pittsburgh, so I volunteered to drive them. I haaaaaate driving in city traffic but some things just need doing and so I did it.
They have two car seats now, one for baby David and one for Rudy. Mattie sat in the back with the children, and her mother came along as well to help her with the appointment. I don't generally go into the hospital with them. I would if they needed me to, but they seem pretty self sufficient. I brought along a book to read 'Remember This' which I bought some time back and have never finished. It's a heavy book and a book like that gets read differently than light reading. I got about 1/3 of the way through it, and then things got busy. Today I started in on it again. I noticed the writing on the flyleaf of the book. 'Powodzenia!' said one with a David S(unreadable). The second thing read: 'Individuals have souls' signed by 'Der' which faded off into another unreadable scrawl. The final thing: 'One evening I go to the theatr' C(unintelligible scrawl) Y.
It hit me today what I have. I have a book autographed by David Strathairn, who played the role of Jan Karski in the one man play. The other two names are Derek Goldman and Clark Young. the playwrights. I had no idea!
So, I sat in the car, engrossed in my book, and eventually everyone returned. Mattie's mother said, "I read about a woman who claims there are many thrift stores in Pittsburgh. I said, "Well, I hate to tell you I am not driving around Pittsburgh looking for them. Happiness is Pittsburgh in my rear view mirror! (no offense Doug)" And so we didn't. We hied ourselves out of town and back on the highway.
Once off the highway, though, the fun began. They love yard sales. So do I. We found a half dozen nice ones, and the trunk began to fill up. A sturdy child's chair, toys, the old fashioned adjustable window screen inserts, a glass pie pan, pitcher, a high chair for dolls (Levi is building a play house for the children), It didn't take many stops and we were unpacking the trunk to repack it to create more room. It was full. One thrift store was so taken with baby David's serious little face that she gave Mattie a box of diapers that someone had donated. Their baby had outgrown them before the box was opened.
Sticking to my determination not to buy ANYTHING because we will be downsizing, I did well. Sort of. At one of the yard sales, there was a lot of nice women's dress clothes. I don't need dress clothes, not at all, but I did love one dress and so I got it. Hanging near it was a 'Coach' purse. You have to understand that I do not know anything about things like this, but I knew that my daughter loves this kind of stuff. It was $20. I tossed it around in my mind, It was very well made. It was in perfect condition. She has a birthday coming up. And so I bought it. It was most certainly fake.
That was quite a full day. Is it really five hours plus driving for the day? I need a friend like you.
ReplyDeleteI don't know John but a blogmate of yours.....Good thoughts.
I left the house at 6:30 AM and got back home at 5:30. It is two hours to Pittsburgh. There was a second stop to pick up her mother, and to drop off some shopping I'd done for her a couple days ago. Then we were on the road. A potty stop. There by 10. They were finished about 12:30 and we were hightailing it out of Pittsburgh. Many stops on the way home. MAAAAAANY....
DeleteFive hours of driving?? We could have been three times around our island with that.
ReplyDeleteHope your blog friend is OK.
Believe me, it is a lot more convenient that way...
DeleteI've also been worried about John. Isn't it strange to have established this relationship without ever meeting, where we read each other's words daily, and he only rarely answers questions...and doesn't read our blogs either! But I do seem to care about his wellfare. Your trip does sound tiring, but very positive, and of course the driver would have had the most energy spent. That's so cool about your book!
ReplyDeleteI know that things like that bother people sometimes. I guess I've never seen it quite that way. I write because I like to write. I read because I like to read. I don't see it as necessarily having to be reciprocal, although it is always fun when that happens. I am worried about him, though.
DeleteI hope John and Beans are OK; I've followed John's wanderings for many years. I suppose a long car journey is something of an adventure for Amish children.
ReplyDeleteWhat a day! And yes, you had a great find in that purse! Also, the used book. How amazing is that?
ReplyDeleteMattie must love and adore you. You are there for her when she needs a concierge to facilitate needs in the world outside her world. And I know that you get pleasure from it too but it is still a gift you give her.
I did a similar good deed on Tuesday when I took my friend to downtown Chicago for a day of doctor appointments. Rush hour, bumper to bumper, going in and coming back out! So we left at 7:30 am and got home right around 6! But we had lots of laughs and that helped! It feels good to help a friend!
ReplyDeleteA good day despite being town driving.
ReplyDeleteIt is worrying when regular bloggers pause writing or commenting, hope all is ok
Just read this very sad news on John’s blog….😭.
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Blogger Janie said...
Hello follower's from Beans and I on the loose...
I am sad to report that John passed away July 21, 2023 in South Dakota. It was very unexpected, he was 74 young. It was a peaceful passing, he went to sleep in motorhome. I am his wife of 53 years. I knew something wasn't right when he was not replying to my texts, emails, or calls. I was able to find him with help of our two adult children. Beans is doing fine, however misses him a lot too. He was a good man and will be dearly missed by his family, and his followers. He loved his followers these past 10 years, as much as he loved reading and writing. There may be additional posts here in near future. Hold him in your daily thoughts...
July 22, 2023 at 1:10 PM
Oh no. I am so sorry to read this.
DeleteWhat a day you had. And sounds like some great finds! So sorry to read that about John. I didn't read him but how sad that he passed away so young. (At 72, 74 seems young to me these days)
ReplyDeleteA mere 8vyears older than me.
ReplyDeleteSince I don't drive anymore, I am really impressed with ALL the driving that you do.
ReplyDeleteI remember that one man play about Jan Karski on Great Performances. It was truly incredible and moving.
The play was so very well done, well written.. Reading it is powerful too.
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