Sunday, May 11, 2025

Another day.

 Tim did more plumbing work, and when I was not required to 'hold this right there like that', I was clearing out the living room space. It contains four extra cabinets that we did not use in the kitchen. They will be finally pulled out of the livingroom and returned to the old house until we find a place for them. 

I've contacted Habitat for Humanity. We've been stockpiling stuff for such a long time. If we saw something on sale, we picked it up. Tile, two kinds of flooring, the kitchen cupboards, lights, both indoor and outdoor, I can't even tell you what all. But now that the job is winding down, we see that we have things that will not be used, and the idea of passing them along to a place that we know will do good would be an awesome way to 'pay it forward'. 

Once the livingroom is emptied out, we can begin to move furniture in. Our plan is to do this slowly and mindfully. We know that everything will not fit, so we have the luxury of being able to pick the things we love best. Mia will be taking a good bit of it for her house, which will help us winnow through stuff too. 

It's like doing the whole Swedish death cleaning thing...our kids are lucky! 

Anyways. 

We put the bathroom light up. Hung the mirror. Tim installed the 'canister' cartridge and now the water valve works. He went out and started work on the kitchen sink. 

I continued pegging away at the mess in the livingroom, sorting all the 'stuff' into electrical, plumbing, painting, saw blades and hole saws in one place, screw drivers in another, probably a couple dozen pencils or markers, half a dozen tape measures, wrenches, pliers, screws, nails, tape, ad nauseum. I also got kind of irritated with him. "Where do you want this?" *holding it up* and the reply came over and over, "Just throw that out, it's no good." 

The question begs an answer...so...we were saving this why? Honest to god. I was throwing away empty packaging. That's something that he could have done...but he doesn't. The extra clutter makes it hard to find stuff. Really, half of my job has been "Find me a pencil" or "Find me a phillips screw driver." 

So. Anyways, he now has a huge storage rack with bins as well as a cabinet and a 7 drawer storage unit in the basement. Hopefully, he will use it to keep organized. He's got shit everywhere. 

So. That's my pet peeve. 

But back to today. It was nice to be hoeing out. We haven't really got any pictures to show, just this, which stinks because I was in a hurry and didn't notice that I had not shown the lights. 

And yes. There is a toilet seat in the back seat of my car right now, along with another batch of plumbing things that we will need to finish up the kitchen plumbing tomorrow. Exciting note: I'll have a dishwasher. I haven't had a dishwasher for 30 years and this was a non-negotiable for me. I am pretty tickled about that.

But pictures of pipes and whatnot are deadly dull, so I kept on cleaning. I suppose I could have taken a picture of the kitchen faucet. I had a friend who was an interior designer. She liked to enter competitions and she had scads of things that she used as design elements. She had a faucet that she said was $1000, something that Tim found fascinating. "What does a thousand dollar faucet even look like?" he wondered. It seemed so ridiculous to us that anyone would spend that kind of money on a faucet, and he wanted to see it, out of pure curiosity. So. She gave it to him. Can you imagine? She also gave me an armload of fabrics for upholstering furniture, something that I passed along to another friend who made some magnificent drapes for his new apartment. 

Anyways. So...I could have taken a picture of Loretta's faucet. Maybe tomorrow. 

I hung out the hummingbird feeder I received for Christmas, and the lawn ornament that I'd received for mother's day. I watered plants and played with cats and emptied that space out. 

When we were done for the day, we came home, changed clothes and headed out for supper, and then stopped at Lowe's to get the plumbing supplies and a toilet seat, which we kept forgetting to buy. They had a special on azalea bushes ($9.99!), so I bought one for the new house. I also got 3 distressed plants, a lily, dianthus, and sea thrift, to round my plant frenzy off to $20.00. I couldn't help smiling to think what that same $20 would have got me had I been able to get to one of Northsider's carboot sales! 

Tim is going turkey hunting tomorrow morning, but then we'll be back down working for the rest of the day. I will get my new flowers planted and be as much help as I can be for Tim.

Tuesday will be a stay at home day. I am very much looking forward to that. I'm tired of this craziness of being between two places. Every time that I look, I've got a clock stopped, because I have forgotten to wind them. But, anyways, I'll use Tuesday to get all the last minute stuff done, and a lasagna put together for another meal for Tim, and then I'm as ready as I can be for my new knee.

And...after all this time, I'm ready. I dreamt last night of marveling over being able to walk and walk. Of course, I also dreamt that I discovered I had lice, so...I'm not sure what to make of all that.  

Thanks for the movie recommendation Jackie. I may have time to watch it after the surgery.


22 comments:

  1. The screaming frustration of just having to stay still and just hold something!!!
    Good to see even more progress!!
    And the sorting if collected things that you won't need in the end..I like the idea of passing them forward.

    I wish I could have Pirate here to help sort all those tools and things down to just what is needed now!!

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  2. You have sorted yourself into a positive state of mind ready for your op.
    You can think about it all ready and waiting for you when it's all over.

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  3. Whenever I get the "Where did I put the ...?" and "Get me a ...." comments from my husband I always think of those tense movie scenes where a surgeon is murmuring "Scalpel, square retractor, forceps" while a nurse swabs his sweating brow!
    Sounds like you are all set for your surgery. I hope everything goes well and that you will soon be walk and walk. You may be best giving the lice a miss though!

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  4. Sending you good vibes for your op, don't rush too fast to be up and about, be kind to yourself.

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  5. I want to see your $1000 faucet. That's $1500+ in our money. It should dispense wine and scotch, plus ice for that price. No dishwasher for 30 years! I wash a couple of things in the sink and my back hurts, admittedly a sink that is more like a laundry trough.

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  6. Now that is a beautiful bathroom! I like them clean-lined, and no fuss. Easier to clean. Can't wait to see the $1,000 faucet, good God, does it pat your hands dry afterwards? When my Hubs and I married, and I moved into his house, I told him, "We are getting a dishwasher, period." I love to cook, I do not like to do dishes.

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  7. Good luck with your surgery. Regard it as a rest from being a gofer.

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  8. If you lived near me I would give my perennials and shrubs for free Debby. Dividing and taking cuttings you will soon have lots of plants for free.

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  9. Good luck with surgery! Linda in Kansas

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  10. For fun, I looked up $1000 kitchen faucet, there are a lot!
    It must feel so good to be so close to the finish. Your husband sounds a little like my husband, they need to learn how to clean up as they go. My husband, when he can't find a tool, just buys a new one, so we have multiple tools. He drives me crazy when he does that, and we have lots of multiples.
    I hope everything goes smoothly and you're up and running/walking soon. Take care.

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  11. You are definitely in the sweet spot of finishing your home. Finishing, furnishing, moving in. Think of that first night you'll sleep in your new room. Beautiful thought. Have you planned the first meal you'll make?

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  12. Best of luck with your surgery, Debby!

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  13. I don't mind being the fetch-and-carryer. What I can't stand is standing at the ready, doing nothing but being there to be handy.

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  14. The little things that you have to tie together at the end of a project take time. Yes some things have to be disposed of unless you're doing another project. It will be interesting to see the finished project.

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  15. I have some experience of being the hold this, like this, not like that person. And the where's the big pliers assistant. Also the tidier upper of the warzone after renovation! Do try to fit in a bit of rest before surgery. You'll be glad you did. And yes, speaking as someone walking pain free, gosh, it's great, worth doing.

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  16. I forgot to say yay you for thinking about Habitat for Humanity! Great destination for useful house items

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  17. I would really like to see that faucet if you can get to it easily. It's exciting that you're coming up on a new knee. Technology for joint replacements, especially hips, has really improved.

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  18. Where is the countdown at now? And I love that you are passing along the bits that don't fit to others who may dream. Hugs.

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  19. Swedish death cleaning is such a good feeling. ;)
    I definitely want to see a thousand dollar faucet!!
    Got to feel so different getting your forever home ready. It will be wonderful! :)

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  20. Lice? Yikes! Maybe it's a metaphor for all of Tim's excess possessions and packaging? LOL

    It will feel great to get rid of all that stuff you weren't able to use. Didn't you have an old white house that you owned that was full of old stuff you were saving for future construction? And a tree fell on it at one point? I seem to remember a picture, but I've lost track in my mind of which house that was or what ever happened to it.

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    1. That's the house on the property we're building the new house on. A great deal of that stuff has been pulled out of that old house and installed in the new house. Once we're finished, we'll get rid of that house. Maybe donate it to the fire department for a controlled burn exercise.

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