Saturday was a good day. I felt like I had kicked this thing in the behind. I met with the home nurse who was quite impressed at how I was getting around, and that made me feel good. I spent the day with no pain killers, (big improvement) and I went to bed with a dose of extra strength tylenol PM. I fell asleep promptly, and slept until I woke up at 3 in some pretty awful pain.
And stayed awake. Migrated from bed to the couch. Back to the bed after a few hours. I just could not get comfortable. It was not cool.
That means, because I was tired, Sunday was a wash out. I was dealing with the final hurrah from the narcotics. (Do. Not. Ask.) It was miserable. I was back in bed by 7. I skipped the night time tylenol and just took two OTC sleep aids. My leg was twinging, little jolts of electricity, and quite by accident, I got an idea. Using a heated massage on my foot and ankle really relieved that pain.
I slept like a rock, which made this morning a pretty good morning.
For one thing, I was able to take my first shower. I was told by the home health person that my dressing would be removed by the person coming on Monday, but at the hospital, they said that I could remove it myself and shower. So. I went with the advice that I liked the best. Since the visiting nurse wasn't coming until after lunch, I removed the bandage as soon as I was out of bed, climbed into the shower and took the longest, hottest shower and it felt like heaven.
I made my first cup of coffee since all this had happened, and that tasted pretty good too.
I got some dishes washed. Tim did two loads of laundry. We planned supper. My meal preplanning was just great, I'm glad to say.
Tim headed out on the business of his day and I settled in to ice my knee and wait for the pt person to arrive. Here's something else that I'm really, really so happy about. She was very pleased to see that I have 100% extension and 95% flexion with that knee. She said that as soon as I get the staples removed, I'll get the other 5%. My therapy will not consist of range of motion, because I've already pretty much got that back, and from what I understand, the ROM is the most painful part of the PT. I'll simply be strengthening that knee. She says the incision looks great, and was amazed at how little swelling and bruising I had. She was pleased that I'd consider my pain at a 2. Reading the notes, she said, as I have heard, over and over again: "Your response to narcotics is not uncommon." The question really does beg an answer then: why did the hospital find it so hard to believe?
Anyways, all good news.
I iced my leg and watched two very old movies, movies that I'd never seen. Postcards from The Edge, which struck me as so sad. Despite the triumphant closing song about leaving Heartbreak Hotel, she didn't.
The other movie I watched was "The Remains of the Day". How did I ever get to be 67 and never see it? I don't know. I could not tell you, but I LOVED that movie. I was quite surprised when my daughter classed it as the worst movie she's ever seen. It was about perfect in my mind, and in the end, when the pigeon flew down the chimney, and the new American owner ushered it out of the window and into the sky, I almost cried to see Mr. Stevens closing that window of the old house. Closing the door to his own cage, albeit one that he had chosen for himself.
I borrowed a page from Catalyst's blog. He and Judy's Friday night tradition is pizza. They buy a regular store pizza and top it with their own toppings. This is something that I used to do when the kids were young. I don't know why I stopped. But I gimped out to the kitchen, topped a cheese pizza with pepperoni, onions, mushroom, peppers, broccoli, another layer of pepperoni, and a good covering of grated mozzarella and some italian seasoning. Easy peasy, and Tim thinks it is 'perfect'.
Kudos to CBS' Wendy McMahon. This is what ethics looks like.
I'm glad you're doing so much better now. I found that heat worked better than icing, too. I had one night of muscle spasms that a heating pad helped a lot with. Sounds as if you're doing very well. Go you!
ReplyDeleteI am. I truly am. This has worked out even better than I could have hoped.
Delete.I am SO glad you are doing so well. My only experience with major surgery was for an elbow/upper arm dislocation, multiple breaks from a fall down a stairway. I ended up in a nursing home/rehab for 3 weeks after hospital stay. Since I live alone, I could not take care of myself. The problem of no pain relief available on time in the facility was excruciating and I have a high pain threshold.
ReplyDeleteThe only time I cried through the entire ordeal, from the actual fall itself, the hospitalization/surgery, was when I COULD NOT get someone with the proper authority to come give me the meds I had been prescribed when I was supposed to have them. It was only after two weeks when I had the stitches out and the staff could see my 9 inch scar running up my arm that they said, "Oh, MY! You REALLY did have a broken arm" I think they thought it was just a simple break.
Ugh, Ana. Holy cow. You know, it does make me wonder if they can simply adopt a cavalier attitude because the know you can't do anything about it? I know this is painting inpatient hospital care with a broad brush, but I am hearing SO many stories.
DeleteHooray! Glad you are feeling better and getting around so well.
ReplyDeleteBoy, I am so grateful!
DeleteGood news on the knee progress. "Remains of the Day" is one of my favourite films, so quintessentially British.
ReplyDeleteOh, thanks for that affirmation Will! I have read a lot about the efforts to appease Hitler. So relevant to the current situation. So many people think Ukraine should just cede land to Putin. Appeasement will not work long term.
DeleteI am pleased to learn of your progress. I think knock out sleeping drugs are not good because you can sleep too soundly and not automatically respond to discomfort, like by moving.
ReplyDeleteAll I know is that I handle things much better when I have had a good night's sleep. I don't know that you could call these things 'knock out drugs'. I still wake up to pee and navigate to the bathroom with no difficulties.
DeleteJust catching up as I was away for a long weekend. we watched Remains of the Day recently too. I thoroughly enjoyed it.
ReplyDeleteWhoot! That is 3 of us!
Delete"Postcards From The Edge" was written by Carrie Fisher. I liked the movie but you're right it was heartbreaking, even more so when you know Carrie died at 60.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad the pain is better. I'm not sure what the effects of the narcotics were for you, but they do have side effects. A good combination is tylenol and advil together, as long as you don't take more than the recommended dose.
As for trump, wow. That man never ceases to amaze in the worst way possible.
Seeing it after the death of Debbie Reynolds and Carrie Fisher, you saw that despite the movie's sweetly triumphant ending, real life careened away from that script.
DeleteGreat to hear that you are making good progress with your knee. Sometimes reactions to drugs can be worse that the symptom.
ReplyDeleteYou are absolutely right on that, Red.
DeleteGood to read you sounding so chipper. Many years ago I was in the hospital for major surgery and was given narcotics, I had nightmares. That was weird.
ReplyDeleteNow that is interesting...nightmares, because I did have a couple nights of strange dreams...
DeleteI am so happy that you are recovering so well from the knee surgery! I'm glad you figured out how to help with sleep. That had to be miserable and frustrating. You really went into this prepared and it shows.
ReplyDeleteI have not seen either movie. I am still so tense about the state of things in this country that I am wasting my tv viewing on 70's sitcoms.
You know, I am finding myself feeling a bit more optimistic. I can't explain it. I don't even want to look at it closely for fear it will disappear in a puff of smoke. We all need to continue speaking up. We all need to press on.
DeleteSounds like you made it through the worst of it.
ReplyDeleteNow I want to rewatch both Remains of the Day and Howards End. I know I loved them both but I can't remember which was which--lol! Well, I probably saw them some 25 years ago...and they were the stars of both movies. At least I know I will enjoy both of them again. I am on a quest. Thank you. I needed a quest like this. :)
A quest, a quest! Let me know what you think of it, will you? Howard's End was not only had the same stars. It had the same producer.
DeleteI rewatched them both and they were both good! But I liked Remains of the Day the best because of the characters and the bits of history. They were both really amazing in that movie! More said in silence on their faces. There was a genuine love there. Having his father there for a while really helped to explain why he was who he was. So good! Howards End was good in a completely different way (and quite ironic) but I never felt as connected to any of the characters as I did to the "unconnected" two characters in Remains of the Day. Thanks for the blast from the past. Was an excellent quest! :)
DeleteGlad to hear that you are having a better day. Yay for OTC meds and your ingenuity. Hope it all keeps on progressing this way. cheers MarieQ
ReplyDeleteNights are the worst, but at this point, Tim and I are talking about a birthday supper Wednesday. I will turn 68. My knee will be one week old
DeleteThat sounds like good progress to me, but some nasty bits along the way. Glad you enjoyed those films (seen neither). I went to the cinema this week and saw Mr Burton - the early days of Richard Burton - and it was brilliant.
ReplyDeleteI was surprised to see Christopher Reeve in it. my, but he was fine!
DeleteI’m so sorry about him; I knew someone who knew him and he was apparently a kind, giving person…
DeleteGood to hear of your positive progress!
ReplyDeleteAnd that quote at the end... well said..Wendy McMahon...some of the last speeches....who will be brave enough to say "the emperor has no clothes"...?
Me! I will! That man is naked as a jaybird!
DeleteGlad to hear that you are progressing so quickly. You would think the first thing that would be taught to any medical person would be "Listen to what the patient tells you".
ReplyDeleteI had to smile when I saw that the quote came from a Wendy. My Mum was a Wendy and she would have had no problems in telling Trump exactly what she thought of him!
She is definitely a class act. We all must be prepared to speak out in whatever capacity we can.
DeleteSo pleased to hear that you are doing so well.......just don't get too enthusiastic with your exercises. I did ,and had a bit of a setback early on!
ReplyDeleteEep!
DeleteGood news. I suppose your positive attitude and determination has helped with your excellent recovery.
ReplyDeleteYou and Tim will be dancing around the new house very soon x
I have not been to the new house for a week!
DeleteI'm so glad that you're feeling so much better. Just don't overdo it!
ReplyDeleteToday, I feel like I did overdo. The PT was pushing it, so I really had no choice. The trip out for a birthday donut was not medically cleared, but it's my birthday and I haven't been out for a week. Whoot!
DeleteSo glad to hear you're on the mend. Your experiences around all of this are helping us, should we ever have to go through it, or someone we love go through it. You can bet your ass I will be prepared to be the Doberman in the room, should it be necessary. As JayCee said, your positive attitude and determination, along with how fit you were before the surgery - all of that helped you recover better. Our health is largely in our hands. We cannot leave it all in the hands of doctors, not any more.
ReplyDeleteNext time, I'm taking my sister with me.
DeleteYou go girl. Just not too fast too soon. Pain is to be expected for a while. As I had a standard car when I got my new knees, I found that I could not use the clutch when I had the left knee done but I was able to drive very soon after the right knee. Did they say when you will be able to drive? You have very good RAM. Keep up the good work, you will be fine. Gigi
ReplyDeleteI haven't tried driving yet, but today, I did walk to the second floor. 15 steps! And back down again.
DeleteDoctors are often absolutely ignorant about the effects of things they prescribe regularly because it's the nurses who are the ones there to see and hear what actually happens. As you know.
ReplyDeleteSO glad to hear that the worse seems to be over AND that you've already got your ROM back. You are a strong woman!
I don't think I've ever seen Remains of the Day either. I did watch Postcards from the Edge. I also read the book. You're right. Sad.
I think the whole world just wanted to believe that she'd beaten her demons...but in the end, she hadn't. The thing is that I never really saw Debbie Reynolds as such a neurotic woman before. She was America's sweetheart. At least the was the perception, but in reading about her, well...the woman was wrestling with her own demons.
DeleteAs are we all.
DeleteKay of Musings: Yikes, Debby! I go away for a few weeks and so much is happening with everyone. I’m in Chicago right now. Two days ago we saw our granddaughter graduate from high school in the AM, have a party and then dance at the theater. I’m so tired from all the activity.
ReplyDeleteI saw Remains of the Day….gosh… decades ago (it feels like).
And your knee? Ouuuuch! I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I hope your time of pain won’t take forever before you’re back to 100% again. You do SO MUCH! I can imagine how frustrating this is for you.
35 years ago, Kay. which was a bit of a shock when I did the math, and thought about who I was and where I was at the time. I'm actually still doing quite a bit, albeit it more slowly.
DeleteI am just amazed at your progress! And, to have such a great ROM already ... Wow! I have always relied on ES Tylenol, both regular and PM.
ReplyDeleteπΆπ΅ Ain't nothing going to slow you down ... π΅πΆ
I just finished with physical therapy. I've gained 8 more degrees of flexion since the visit on Monday. Quite pleased. I climbed to the second floor today. He said that he would never have guessed that I was only one week out.
DeleteNighttime pains are the worst, especially when they come and go and just when you’re settling they come again … and again. I sometimes move from chair to bed or vice versa, and sometimes it helps. Pillows under legs can also help on occasion.
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DeleteLOL. John, I recognized your 'voice'. Isn't that funny how that begins to happen?
DeleteWell done you, and delighted you're truly on the mend. I've been paying special attention as I shall be the facing the same trial of knee replacement sometime in the near future. I made note of needing an "advocate" in place who's paying attention while I'm in hospital. My husband is lovely but useless with anything medical. Fortunately, I've a cousin and sister to step up to the plate to act as friendly yet pushy pit bulls. (Their words).
ReplyDeleteWhoops, twas also I. Damn Blogger
ReplyDeleteTim is just uncomfortable making decisions in unfamiliar arenas. I think it is kind of normal. After all these years, it's something that I have just accepted about him. What I didn't properly consider was that I was going to be temporarily unable to advocate strongly for myself.
DeleteGlad you are doing so well! I loved The Remains of the Day. On a sad note, Wendy M has been forced out of CBS news. Another loss to the Felon's pressure.
ReplyDeleteShe was forced out because she refused to go with the Trump friendly' narrative. She stood firm. Ethics.
DeleteI am just catching up with your pot-op posts. What trauma in the hospital! Really unforgivable of them to not keep your ice and compression working. Both help prevent blood clots, as you know. Good grief.
ReplyDeleteIt sounds like you are doing amazingly well. I am so glad, and so relieved, for you. Rest well, dear Debby!
Susanna, I do have a question for you. I am a week out, and the pain is very tolerable, and I will shamefully admit that I'm get to puttering in the kitchen or bathroom, I sometimes find myself buzzing around while my walker sits waiting for me. I just forget. However, the thing that I have noticed is that I'm really troubled by the almost 'electric shock' jolts towards the end of the day. I have explained this away as a broken bone healing...but did you have that?
DeleteI'm so glad to hear it's going well. I'm sure there will continue to be ups and downs but it really sounds like you're doing great.
ReplyDeleteI loved "The Remains of the Day" too. In fact I've often meant to read the book but I haven't done so yet.
I did love the book, which I read years ago. Too long ago to be able to pick the differences apart. But, boy, didn't that movie really highlight Anthony Hopkins' ability to convey an emotion without out saying one word? Impressive range. I really thought the acting of all of them was top notch, though.
DeleteI particularly like that Meme, so True. Glad it's going well now... even if it didn't while hospitalized. Sometimes you need to escape the Hospital to get Well.
ReplyDeleteLOL. That's funny. Also very true.
ReplyDeleteI loved Remains of the Day - both book and movie - saw them with enough distance between them for both to be stand-alone experiences. Very glad that you are "bouncing" back - a friend who had hers a month before is still very much in the throes however I think there is other stuff in the mix for her.
ReplyDeleteI am so glad to have it in my rear view. I think this really will be life changing.
DeleteI've been reading about your hospital stay but haven't had a chance to comment until now. I'm really sorry you had such bad treatment! It's good to hear you're coming out the other side of this ordeal, though.
ReplyDeleteI loved the book The Remains of the Day. The movie was good, but the book is better.
I think that's 8 of us!
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