Wednesday, August 5, 2026

I am back!

 I got back from my son's house pretty late last night. There was A LOT of construction on 80, with one lane traffic. This created huge bottlenecks because people will wait until the last damn minute to merge. Traffic crawled for miles. Consider the fact that there were 5 or 6 of these construction zones, welp...I did not get home until almost 7. I was whupped. 

It was such a fun visit, as always. 

Today was a jump up and get on the road. We have a tenant that is particular. She did not like her apartment sized washer and dryer. It was replaced with an LG all in one. She didn't like that. It is something that Tim and I feel strongly about. Clean clothes are a basic human dignity, so everyone has a washer and dryer. I said to the tenant, "We have met our scope of responsibility. This is a new $1900 unit. If you are unhappy with it, we will pull it, but you can buy your own." 

This was the morning. She messaged me over the weekend.  I told her to call Tim, that I was not home. She didn't. That meant that the first Tim heard that we had to get an appliance moved was late last night.

So, we got up early and got going. Tim was cranky. We did not have any place to store this appliance. He snapped, 'I am hauling it to the scrap yard.'  

I told him he wasn't. The machine was installed on April 17th, 2025. I told him there were plenty of people who'd be glad for a new washer. I put an ad on a Helping Hands site, and then we wheeled it to the road to load on the truck. These things are heavy as heck, so it was a bit of huffing and puffing. 

A guy passing by in his truck stopped to give a hand and the job was done. Tim asked him if he wanted it.

"No," he said, and asked how much we wanted for it. Tim told him it was free. My husband was bound and determined that he was not moving that thing into the basement where we have a stock pile of appliances. Like I said, the thing is heavy.

Our helper took down our number and names and drove away. We went down the street and dug up a snowball bush from the old house that I wanted to take to the new. I also wanted some lamb's ear.

We were about to head out when my phone rang. It was an elderly man. He and his wife were raising their great-grandkids, if you can believe it. They had just had their washer repaired and had been told that it was on its last legs. A stepson had called to tell him about ours. 

We told him it was on our truck and that we would deliver it.

And we did. 

His wife was so pleased. A naked 3 year old came to the door with her. I laughed and said that if the rest of them dressed like this one, she might not need to do laundry at all. Great-grandma wearily said, "this week she doesn't want to wear clothes."

We got the washer off the truck with the ramps and wheeled up on their porch. Their son in law was coming after work to switch everything out. We left the dolly there. He will drop it at the old house tomorrow.

Tim's mood brightened considerably once he stopped worrying about that washer. We stopped to grab a late lunch. "What should we do now?"

I reminded him that there was a bush we needed to get in the ground. I did suggest stopping by a yard sale on the way out of town. I had seen a hummingbird feeder that was perfect for my bottle tree.

The proprieter was a talker. He and his wife had just moved in. I pointed to their fence behind the house and explained that on the other side of that was our backyard. One thing led to another, and somehow he wound up on the subject of guns.

"You may not agree with me but if they're going our guns away ('oh no...not one of those!') the only ones left with guns will be law enforcement, and those seem to be the people we have to worry about."

Could have knocked me over with a feather. 

The evening was spent planting a bush, hanging my new bird feeder and two solar lanterns on my bottle tree. 

I have my first zucchini from my own garden.



27 comments:

  1. In this climate, that guy might be right in worrying about the police or at least about those who seem like police but drop the ‘pol’ part of the word.

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    1. Sadly, AC, you are right. These days prove beyond any doubt that there are people in this world who cannot handle power responsibly.

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  2. I think your tenant is stupid but what a great outcome, with the machine going to some deserving people. You were kind, when Tim's idea would have been so easy.

    It would be an excellent outcome for only police to have guns, plus some farmers and animal pest control workers. Then as no one has guns except for police, the police will no longer need guns. Yes, idealistic, but if only criminals have guns, rather than average citizens, it would make a huge difference.

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    1. No citizen needs a weapon that fires multiple rounds per second. I don't believe that the police need this either. That simple change would save hundreds of lives. Sadly, we can't even agree on that.

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  3. I love the way you and Tim care for your tenants. Clean clothes ARE a human right.
    Now what that man said about guns is not what I would have expected either. At all.

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    1. It really is just good business sense. If you provide your tenants with a nice home at a fair price, they stay. All parties benefit. And they should.

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  4. Given that the guy lives just over your fence, I'm glad of the outcome in your conversation. Just what you need - a gun nut within range.
    And what a day! You must have been exhausted.

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    1. We have a lot of them. Refreshing to be surprised.

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  5. I wish I'd had landlords like you and Tim all the years I rented. Even the ones who weren't terrible were never very good. Always looking to save a buck any way possible. The last house we rented before buying our first home, the guy was so cheap and skimped on maintenance to the point that the place was a dump by the time we left. And we were ideal renters. You would have been a godsend. Your tenants are lucky.

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    1. We try to keep them happy. Our latest tenant has been with us for a year. Our longest at least 7.

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  6. Gun man...ugh!

    You two are remarkably conscientious landlords.

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    1. It just makes good business sense to do right by people.

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  7. That's a great outcome. Anyone raising their great grandkids deserves deserves a medal the size of a washing machine in my opinion. I am glad you were able to lighten their load a little.

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    1. Lighten their load. Ha! That's a great washer pun!

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    1. Not perfect, but we do try hard not to miss an opportunity to do good.

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  9. How nice that you found a new home for that washer.

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    1. ...and I love that it went right to where it needed to be.

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  10. You and Tim are the best landlords ever. So compassionate. And I love how the washer story ended. Someone sent that man driving by you as the washer was loaded. Someone put all of you in place so the washer could go to those great grandparents. It gives me chills. I want more Debby and Tims in the world. What a better place it would be.
    I guess the yard sale guy doesn't realize more family members are killed by guns than anyone in this country. I can't even deal with that. NO ONE needs rapid fire weapons. No one.
    Welcome back - glad you had a wonderful time with your family.

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    1. After a lifetime of listening to the whole 'if you outlaw guns, only outlaws will have guns' response, it was actually refreshing to hear that he was watching events unfold around us and recognizing that they are scary and wrong. Another interesting thing is that he was legally blind. He got rid of all his guns because it wasn't safe for him to have them.

      It is quite a situation for those grandparents. I am glad that we could help them out.

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  11. Hoo boy! Bet that tenet is gonna be surprised at prices when she gets her own type of washer and dryer. Be prepared for her to have "leaks" from not getting it installed correctly. I always bought those steel mesh type of connection hoses so I didn't have to worry so much. That's my life's goal: to worry appropriately. Linda in Kansas

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    1. She already replaced it. Tim installed it. It is done right.

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  12. Well some good some bad here. You got rid of the machine but you could have made some money.

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    1. We could have. The thing is that we would have had a large appliance in our truck, waiting for the deal to be made. The basement where we store our extra appliances was crowded. Getting it in the basement would have required maneuvering something extremely heavy around everything already down there. We would have had to turn around and haul it back out when it sold. In the end, Tim wanted it out of his hair. There is also a lot of satisfaction in knowing that the appliance meant a lot to the people who got it. We are at peace with the decision.
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  13. I'm really looking forward to further tales of the lady who wanted to pay for her own washer/dryer. I'm sure there will be a rich vein of humor there. And the way it worked out for the people who needed one to get the rejected set is so perfect. I hope there are other family members helping out with those great grandchildren!

    Ceci

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    1. I actually really had to think about what I posted here today. It would really be a huge invasion of her privacy to post a lot about her. I want to make it clear that we do not dislike her in any way. She is one our tenants and just very particular. She takes very good care of her home and she loves it.

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  14. That appliance found the home it deserved

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 I got back from my son's house pretty late last night. There was A LOT of construction on 80, with one lane traffic. This created huge ...