Saturday, October 25, 2025

One Funeral and a Wedding



 It has been a busy past few days. My daughter and her long time fella got married. It was a small affair at the JP's office, but we wanted it to be special. I think it was.

Her father drove in from Michigan. Tim and I were the other two attendees. We decided to have a nice dinner out afterwards. 

I got a bouquet of flowers for Brianna and made boutonnieres for Don and William, who had suits for the occasion. William was the ring bearer.

I wanted a small cake too, snd the young girl who did the decorating understood the assignment, e en tough the don't make wedding cakes.  They had no toppers, but I went back to the Christmas aisle and got a dated wedding ornament for their tree. I was very disappointed not to find a little bride and groom, but it just is what it is.

 When I stopped in the next morning to pick up the cake, the same young woman was there. She said, 'the cake turned out so beautiful!'  

I took the pasteboard box from her and said, 'You know what?  I had no doubts that it would be.' When we opened up the box later, everyone ooh'd and ah'd. It really was perfect. 

Behind it, you will see William. He was pranking his aunts and uncle. He had ordered a root beer and was delighted to see it looked like an actual beer bottle.



(No actual alcohol consumed.)

The ceremony was done in short order. William produced the rings on cue. Promises made. 

We tried to get pictures afterwards, but the wind picked up and a cold rain started, so between us all, we only got a hundred or so.

We went to the restaurant and had a good meal. The restaurant is noted for their fish and seafood as well as their steak. I think everyone ended up with some version of seafood, but there was a lot of joy and chatter, so...I forget.


In the end, two people were married. That is the most important thing.

I would have forgotten the funeral in all the hubbub. Lester wasn't related, really, but he was a good, good man that our family claimed, the grandfather of some of my nieces and nephews. Much beloved.  There will be an empty plate at the Thanksgiving table this year, and we will all feel his absence. I am glad my sister reminded me of it. Tim and I went flying in at the last minute, but we made it.

This morning, I stopped in to thank the cake decorator. In an interested voice, she asked, "Was the celebration special? Were you able to find a topper?"  I was really touched. I told her that everyone was delighted with her work. 

Ii guess the only other thing of note is that last night we went to an historic theater to see the 1931 versions of Frankenstein with Boris Karlov and Dracula with Bela Lugosi. William commented that the special effects were pretty cheesy. We all laughed as we explained to him that in 1931, movies with sound were still a novelty. The special effects were, for their time, cutting edge.

This is a pretty disjointed post, but it has been a pretty disjointed few days.

41 comments:

  1. A busy day all around!
    The cake reminds me of the one my mother and her friend made for my wedding l. It was a non-event, just as I insisted (no guests, just 2 witnesses and the JP) but the two women went out of their way to make a pretty, fancy cake. I have appreciated the thought and effort more and more as the years go by.

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    1. I just wanted the day to be special for them. I think it was. They did the fine clothes. I did cake and flowers. Her father did champagne and glasses. We both went in halves for the celebratory 'after' meal. Her brother and sister in law pitched in for a grand meal at a restaurant the next day that was eaten right before an event at theater. Those tickets were our gift to the honeymooners. William has been with us for the weekend. Everybody worked together to make a nice weekend for them.

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  2. That cake is lovely. Just fancy enough for the event. Perfect.

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    1. I was so surprised when I opened the box. I did not expect such a gorgeous job. Everyone was surprised actually.

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  3. Those are great pictures of William - - and the cake! Congratulations on your daughter's wedding, that's wonderful. I'm sorry about the loss of a loved one though, you packed a lot in here Deb. I would have loved this seen those old horror movies at the theater too, very cool. You really have been keeping busy!

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    1. It was very cool to see it all on the big screen. We decided that Dr VonHelsinger from Dracula looked a lot like RFK, Jr. Did you know that biting people in the neck has been linked to autism?

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  4. The cake was lovely! The decorator went the extra mile, and it shows.

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    1. She sure did! It was just a little Walmart cake, but that girl pulled out all the stops.

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  5. I would not call it disjointed, not every post needs a theme, you covered important life events, sometimes that's just the way things are. William is a good looking young man. That cake was a beaut!

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  6. the smile on William's face tells me that it was a good time.

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    1. It was a happy day for him. He had an announcement of his own. He is being adopted. He seemed pretty excited about his new name.

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  7. Congratulations to your daughter and new son in law. It's also lovely to see William, he's getting so big.
    That cake turned out beautiful and I'm glad everything went well.

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    1. He is closing in on 15. I can hardly believe it.

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  8. That's nice that the cake was so good and everything went smoothly.
    I have seen both films but it was so long ago. I remember that they were scary at the time.

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    1. To be honest, Andrew, I don't know that I ever saw either one of them before. We did not have much television access growing up.

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  9. What a circle of events: a wedding, a funeral, and scary movies. I like the heart shaped cake too. Linda in Kansas

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    1. It was quite a bit of scrambling, that is for sure.

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  10. William is so handsome. Is this his mother that got married? The cake was beautiful and just right for a wedding, the baker did a great job. I hope word of the cake gives her business a boost. Sorry to hear about your friend. I know what you mean about an empty place at the table. It hurts.

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  11. What a pretty cake. William was having fun (bless him!) and it sounds like the wedding went well. I can remember going to all-night horror movie sessions at a cinema, when I was young enough to stay awake! I think we probably saw those very films you mentioned - it was Curse of the Mummy's Tomb territory!

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    1. Oh, William is never one to miss a chance to have a laugh.

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  12. The cake looks just right for the occasion and William a handsome boy. Not a disjointed blog but just how the day works.

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    1. You are right. The blog post is all over the place because we were all over the place.

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  13. William looks so happy and the cake is beautiful. I wonder if the young woman will go on to decorate more wedding cakes now she has gone out of her comfort zone and found that she can make such a lovely job of it?

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  14. Congratulations to your daughter and SIL, William does look very impressed with himself.

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  15. A beautifully crafted cake, and looks like a very happy occasion too.

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  16. Congrats to your daughter and son in law. A wedding day is so special no mater how long you have been living together. The cake is so beautiful and just right. Is the bride William’s mom. He sure has grown up fast. Gigi

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  17. Congratulations to the happy couple, and condolences for the passing of a good friend. Thanks for the fun post!

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  18. William looks good and happy too.

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  19. Congratulations to the newlyweds! William looks so grown up, and very handsome. I'm sorry for your family's loss....joy and sorrow mingled...such is life.

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  20. How nice to see your handsome William! The cake is perfect. Best wishes to the newlyweds! May they have many more happy years together. A busy week of happiness and sorrow - life goes on...

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  21. How kind of you to let the cake decorator know that her effort was appreciated and added to a happy occasion.

    Ceci

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  22. Sounds like a perfectly fun weekend all around except for the funeral!

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  23. It's a lovely cake and the whole celebration sounded perfect.

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  24. Well, congratulations all around. I'm glad the wedding celebration was special and the cake DOES look great. Dave and I had a similar wedding, keeping the fuss to a minimum!

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  25. Lovely cake indeed! Glad everything went off well.
    The first time I ever saw a rooster mount a hen it occurred to me that it looked just like when Bela Lugosi went in for the neck of one of his victims, draping his cape over them as he bit.

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  26. Congratulations to everyone! William looks so grown up. I remember when.......

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  27. For not being wedding cake bakers that bakery did an excellent job.
    Two celebrations of lives beginning and a life ending.

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  28. What a special day and a beautiful cake! Congratulations to the whole family. William is looking very grown up.

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One Funeral and a Wedding

 It has been a busy past few days. My daughter and her long time fella got married. It was a small affair at the JP's office, but we wan...