Wednesday, August 6, 2025

At Home

Slowly but surely, the new house is beginning to feel like home. Things are starting to find the places where they will belong: baking dishes here. Pots and pans there. Appliances. Clothes. Bathroom supplies, kitchen supplies. Food even. As things are put away, the house begins to look uncluttered. 

After living in a big house that I could never quite keep up with, this house is wonderfully simple. Two bedrooms, one bath, the pantry, and a combined livingroom/kitchen.  I can sweep the kitchen, bathroom and pantry in ten minutes. I can plug the vacuum into the receptacle in the hall and vacuum the whole house in about the same amount of time. This morning, getting the house in order took about an hour. I watered and weeded the gardens. I fed cats. I put diatomaceous earth around the foundation of the house (ants), and dragged building scraps to the burn pile. 

 I had cucumbers from my garden in dill and sour cream for lunch. Now I am sitting in a quiet house listening to crickets outside and wondering if it is going to rain. The clock strikes the hour: 1PM.







There is still plenty to do. Furniture moved in. We don't have our dressers for example. No pictures on the wall.

It will happen, and I am remarkably unbothered by it.

I am marveling at my own contentment. I realize that this quietness is what I have been missing.

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  1. Nothing beats being in your own calm tidy space, time to breathe.

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    1. I don't think I will ever take being able to simply breathe for granted. One can be too busy.

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  2. Your beautiful beautiful house! I always say that, if we ever move, I want to move one item at a time, put it in place and when the new house is full - sell the rest! Your new home is so peaceful and calm and uncluttered. Wonderful!

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    1. It is nice to be mindfully bringing things into the new place.

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  3. It all looks and sounds lovely.

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  4. It looks like a comfortable home and I am impressed by all the work you have done. Now what happens to your other house? Do you sell it?

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    1. It will be sold once we are rid of the contents.

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  5. It all looks like HOME! You've done it.

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  6. You've built and begun to feather a cozy nest.

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  7. Beautiful and lovely to be settling into your new home. And thank you for the post yesterday regarding the sparrows. It was compassionate and fair on your part, considering the circumstance. A situation we do not all understand but handled with great tact by yourself.

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    1. I don't understand it, but it just seemed so inhumane. Many people consider sparrows a threat. I suppose it is no different from human beings seeing other human beings as things to be weeded out.

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  8. That lovely feeling of content! Yes, you needed this. Enjoy!

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    1. I really did need it. I never realized just how much.

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  9. Pleasant and peaceful, what more could one ask for when moving into the golden years? I love it for you.

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    1. The Golden years are actually beginning to feel golden.

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  10. Love the photos of the new place! I am going to be downsizing soon too. I am buying an older house but I am going to have the kitchen cabinets painted to freshen it up a bit. Yay for new beginnings!

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    1. That's exactly what it feels like: a new beginning!

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  11. It really looks like a home now, and so easy to live in.

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    1. I love having a dishwasher, that's for sure. It really makes for a quick supper clean up! It feels very luxurious to sit in the evening and watch the sun go down.

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  12. I think it definitely feels like home ... OMG ... it's just about perfect! To know you two built it all from the ground up ... makes it perfect!

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    1. It took a bit to adjust to the new rhythms of the house. There is less to do, that is for sure.

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    2. I might add ... I love ❤️ that bathroom sink and the Hoosier cabinet!

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    3. I love that sink as well. The drawers are much more practical.

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  13. It's beautiful! I especially love that cabinet in the pantry.
    How long before the quietness drives Tim mad?

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    1. That is a hoosier cabinet, an accessory for hoosier cabinets. Tim had never seen one before. Neither had I. 6 minutes after the seller listed it, we'd bought it and were on our way to pick it up!

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  14. I love the pictures of your new home, it is beautiful and looks like home already, cats and all. I plan to downsize soon but have so much to think about and my house is full of memories. I have wonderful neighbors, and they are always ready to help me, and my two kids live within 5 miles of me. I want to move into a small home but need my memories. We lived in this house many years before Ron died.

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    1. That is why I loved having everyone to the house the week we moved in. We made new memories, and discovered that old memories are easily packed to bring with us.

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  15. Perfection! So happy for you!

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  16. these are photos we all wanted to see. After all your planning and work, we wanted to see the finished product.

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    1. We are not all moved in, but it is all taking shape.

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  17. What they said! So wonderful for you!

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    1. I think now that Tim has had a chance to slow down, even he is discovering that he likes it.

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  18. This sounds like peace in its purest form. I love how you're settling in with grace and calm. Quiet contentment really is a gift

    a lovely slice of your day.

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    1. Thank you Asep. Quiet contentment: I wish it for all the world.

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  19. Enjoy your new home and the satisfaction that comes with it.
    Bonnie in Minneapolis

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    1. It is so wonderful to sit back and enjoy the fruits of our labor.

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  20. Lovely to be able to settle in with no rush

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  21. It's so good to hear about you getting settled in after all the months of building.

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    1. Two years! It would have gone much faster if we had been able to devote our attention just to the new house. We were stretching ourselves way too thin.

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  22. Wonderful! You know every square inch of your home, literally. That makes it very special.

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  23. So pleased it’s coming together for you. I know what that feels like and it feels good

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    1. It just feels nice to be able to leisurely accomplish things that you want to do, rather than peck away at a list that needs to be done with all due haste.

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  24. Thank you for sharing the pictures, Debby, your home is so peaceful-looking! I get that, too, the missing quiet and stillness. After SO much activity and work and more work, it's time to enjoy.

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    1. I think even Tim has decided that we are not going to buy another house to fix up.

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  25. La! I have missed a few days of blog posts - the next big job, of course, will be the old house - or will you keep the 2 going?

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  26. I like it!

    It looks like a place of rest and relaxation.

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  27. Well, it's been a long busy process to get to this point, so I'm not surprised you've been missing some peace and quiet! The place looks great. I love your kitchen paint color and the accompanying white tile.

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  28. With all the horrible things going on all around us these days, this was a pleasant reminder that there are still good things happening in this world. Thank you for sharing your move in experience with us.

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    1. Jim, I have to tell you. We haven't had a television for a couple of weeks. Not sure either of us want it at this point.

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  29. A well-deserved and well-earned congratulations, Debby! Enjoy the contentment.

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  30. It is perfect and already so homey. What's the next project? LOL

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    1. Tim is working on his shed. I am puttering in the house. I will go outside and putter in the garden next. I think Tim is learning the joys of puttering.

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  31. How lovely for you. We have sold our large family house and now live in a tiny cottage - and I absolutely love it. There is an aesthetic to the simplicity and also to realising that you don't need loads of 'stuff' around - though you do need order and neatness I find. But then I like that too. Sorry to be away for so long.. life's been busy and tough at times these last two or three years - but getting there I think

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    1. You have had quite a few life changes. Adding a move in the middle of all that would be a valid reason for a blogging break! I have been meaning to go back and read about Arizona...but I have been distracted by life here as well.

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  32. Your quietness has been well earned. Both of you deserve it.

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    1. I am savoring it. Tim went to the county fair to watch his brother compete in a tractor pull. I stayed home and read Our Town. It has been many years since I first read it.

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