Thursday, July 2, 2026

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Yesterday was another scorcher of a day. We were on a mission though. We had volunteered to drive Levi and Mattie to Pittsburgh for their second youngest son to be seen at the children's hospital there. Because it is a holiday week, they had trouble finding a driver. 

We were up early. We needed to be in their driveway at 6:30. I set my alarm for 4:30, but was awake at 3. We got there and there had been a change. Levi could not go. 

Hay had been a problem for all farmers here. A week ago, we were having one storm after another. You can't do hay in the rain. This week, with a long stretch of hot, dry days, everyone cut their hay, Levi included. Unfortunately, it needed an extra day in the field to dry due to the humidity.

We use balers, but the Amish do it differently. They fork the loose hay onto wagons, where kids are waiting to stomp it down as it comes on board, one fork at a time. Then it is pulled to the barn. They have a 'claw' on a arm and pulley system. The huge claw is dropped on to the hay wagon to pick up a big wad of hay. It is pulled up, hand over hand, swung over to the hay mow. The hay is dropped and it is once again stomped down so that as much hay as possible can be tucked away for winter feed. 

It is labor intensive work and in this heat, a hard job becomes even more grueling. A couple years ago, we were sitting on the porch. Levi was telling us that he had a strange experience. He was working in the hot sun and sweating up a storm. Suddenly he noticed that he wasn't sweating. He got a severe headache, followed by violent shakes. He had to stop what he was doing and lay down in the shade. "It always starts when I stop sweating, though," he said.

I could not believe my ears. It had happened to him before? I taught these classes in the military. "Levi, I said, "people die this way! What you are describing is the first stage of heat stroke." I explained to him about sweating being his body's way of cooling itself. When your body has lost enough water and salt that it stops producing sweat, your body temperature begins to rise. Just like a patient with a high fever will get violent cold chills, a heat stroke patient does the same. This explained his violent shakes. Everyone on the porch was listening intently. "If your body temperature goes high enough, it will kill you. All of you need to keep yourselves well hydrated when you are working like that." I explained the difference between water and sports drinks. 

Tim said, "we still have time before the Dollar General closes..." and just like that they were up and headed out. They take things like this very seriously and have been sticklers on hydration ever since. 

Anyway, Levi could not go to Pittsburgh because he had hay down. Although the oldest boy is a grown man now, he was not going to leave his children to do the job alone.

Mattie was worried about this meeting with the surgeon. She wanted Levi there to make any decisions with her. We picked up her mother on the way and drove just over two hours to get there only to discover that the appointment, made months back had been rescheduled to next month to accommodate the doctor's vacation. No one had contacted them to tell them this. 

Very frustrating. They were very apologetic but it didn't change the fact that it had been a wasted day.

We drove back home, determined to make the best of it, getting groceries and stopping at the Goodwill. 

As we pulled up, the haywagon had just been unloaded. Everyone came across the road tired and sweaty to grab a cold gatorade. Levi wanted to know what the doctors were going to do. 

I said, "weeeeelllllll..." and explained. Mattie was inside directing the putting away of groceries. 

Levi took off his hat and mopped his face with his handkerchief. "No...that's not right!" He exclaimed.

Mattie came out and said, "I was glad you were not there..."

Anyways, tonight we are doing a 'frolic', which is what they call a party after a big job is done. We are taking up hotdogs to roast, all manner of toppings, a roaster full of sloppy joes, potato salad, chips and a homemade ice cream cake. Afterwards, we will have sparklers and fireworks. 

A sad thing. A young Amish man was coming home after a long days work last week after those bad storms. He noticed three horses laying in his neighbor's field. He notified the neighbor that something was wrong. As he went back to investigate, he stepped over a barbwire fence. An electric line was down, and he was electrocuted. The horses were dead although they were nowhere near the fence. 

We knew him because he was part of a team we hire for construction work in town.


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    1. It was. But all's well that ends well. As Mattie said, 'what can you do? No point in being angry.' She is right.

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  2. Not notifying them was definitely out of order.. But at least it ended up a good day.
    Tragic deaths of man and horses. Team members all

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  3. How aggravating that the hospital appointment was rescheduled, and how rude not to let people know.
    That poor young man - what a dreadful thing to happen, and losing three horses like that was a terrible blow, too.
    Enjoy your frolic - that sounds so much fun.

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    1. They admitted their mistake, which was something that doesn't always happen. The horses surely were a great loss. Well trained teams cost thousands. David was a good man.

      The kids really do enjoy the fireworks. We don't get noisy ones. We don't get the ones that explode in the air. Just fountains and sparklers and popits.

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  4. That was either very inconsiderate or a very bad foulup.

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    1. It was a mistake and they owned up to it right away, which doesn't always happen. However it is the second time that this has happened. To avoid this, Mattie has decided to call the day before the appointment to verify it from now on.

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  5. What a tragedy about the young man! Such a freak accident. Because I don't know much about the Amish, do they have phones? I'm wondering how the doctor's office would have notified them if they don't. Perhaps through someone else?

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    1. They do not have phones, but they list four phone numbers, ours included, where word can be gotten to them.

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  6. My goodness! You truly live where life is REAL.
    So interesting to be living alongside the Amish and learning their ways. I'm so sorry to hear about that man's death caused by simple good intentions.

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    1. It has been chockablock full lately. You are right about the young man. He had two very young sons.

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  7. I agree with Marty; it's interesting to hear how the Amish do things.
    Horrible about the man who was electrocuted. We never know, do we, that something unexpected is about to happen; sometimes our own death. A stark reminder to appreciate every moment as we're in it.
    Here, we live at least two hours from Saskatoon, where we usually have to go to see specialists or for certain tests. Sometimes we drive all the way there and the appointment only lasts 10 minutes -- and could have been done over the phone. It does make us angry. It's as if city dwellers who work in those offices have no idea what it's like to live rurally; that it's not just a hop skip and jump to get yourself to the city, that it's costly, stressful, and takes a whole damn day by the time you're home again, exhausted. I hope more of us speak up about it so that maybe one day they'll wake up and have some consideration.
    -Kate

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    1. They really try to get all the appointments they can in one day. He sees a lot of specialists. I don't think the hospital staff doesn't always understand why this is so important.

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  8. What a confusing week! Good to inform them of the heat stroke risk! Jeepers! I'm surprised it's not taught by the elders. Someone goofed at the hospital appointment! Even a letter had time to get to them! So sad about the accident. Thanks for helping them. Linda in Kansas

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    1. This was a couple years ago. I can tell you that everyone in the community understands it now if they didn't before.

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  9. That was a great piece of learning you offered the whole community. I agree, when it's a day's work to get to a medical appointment, check near the time that it's still on. You tend to think it's on unless you hear otherwise, though. The medics don't know what an upheaval it is to get to what's just part of their day's work.

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  10. I think that you have hit it on the head. It is just every day to them. They don't sometimes see it from the other side.

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  11. Even if the doctor's office had four phone numbers for other people, it can't be easy to get messages to someone without a phone. I'm not defending the office- they admitted they'd made a mistake. But even if they had called one or more of the numbers, yours included, it would not be guaranteed that Mattie and Levi would get the message and there would be no way to know that if they did not reply through someone else.
    Complicated.
    It seems to me that in trying to keep their lives simple, the Amish often have complications that don't usually arise. Ironic but this is the way of it, I guess.
    As always, you and Tim are angels to them and for them. I know they give back in return.

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    1. It is not perfect, but I can say that if we had gotten that message, we would have either run up to tell them. Their neighbors would have run down the road to tell them. Everyone knows how important these appointments are for Rudy's sake. Their hospial file notes that they are Amish. It is a system that generally works. However calling one day prior should work well for any glitch in the system. I generally try to view it as 'their way'. It is not up to me to have an opinion on it. And yes...you are exactly right. It is very much a 2-way street. They give as much as they get.

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  12. Oh what a wasted day, with the appt. cancelled and your family not informed. How ignorant is that? Just as well Levi stuck to his guns and stayed to get the hay in. You passed on vital knowledge in the past when you told them about heat stroke. That information passed on may have saved lives. So sorry to hear about the young man who was electrocuted (and the horses too, come to that, being a horse lover).

    That "frolic" sounds fun. Had mine on Sunday, with my enjoyable day off, church bothering and a cracking ice cream!!

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