Wednesday, July 9, 2025

Small Stuff

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So this happened. My tomatoes have a lot of blossoms, but today, for the first time, I saw tomatoes. Tiny ones, but it made me happy to see them. 

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Teeny tiny peppers too. 

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We got the doors on the bedroom closet, both bedrooms, the bathroom. We have the stuff to hang the pantry door. We worked on the baseboard in the livingroom. 

We read of a situation in the paper yesterday. Tim and I sat pondering it. We know the backstory. I said, "You know, we could fix that." Nothing more. Just that. This morning, he wanted to go over to the courthouse and get his deer hunting license. To my surprise, while he was there, he walked over to the proper office and he did fix that.

I met up with a friend while he was gone. She had a chair to give me, and it will match nicely with the little enamel top kitchen table that belonged to Tim's mother. It is always good to talk with Diane. She is centered and wise, and no matter what is going on in the world around me, I walk away feeling better for having discussed it with her. It is hard for both of us to watch what is happening in the world right now, especially in our own country. A lot of people seem to have given up, seems to me. Throw their hands in the air and say, "What can we do?" or "We're fucked." 

I try to avoid getting sucked down to that point, but sometimes just does all seems too big. Too overwhelming. I need to step back. Diane's a kindred soul, and she's the same. 

May be an image of text that says 'Paraphrasing spiritual teacher Ram Dass, "Whether this is the first day of the Apocalypse or the first day of the Golden Age, the work remains the same...to love each other and ease as much suffering as possible."'

We stood in the morning cool talking about that, the fact that we are out in the middle of rural NW Pennsylvania, far removed from a great many of the horrors. 

What do we do? And does it mean anything at all?

And once again, the only conclusion that we can come to is that we do kindness. We pour as much kindness as we can, right where we are. It truly is all we can do. In the end, it might matter to no one, but what it guarantees is that we did not become part of the ugliness, and that has to mean something, doesn't it? 

May be an image of 1 person and text that says 'Let the lie lie come into the the world... But not through me. The simple step of a courageous individual is not to t take part in in the lie. Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn'

So...

Today, I put venison in the crock pot with peppers, onions, and mushrooms and allowed it to simmer while we worked. Steak subs sounded good for supper. We stopped on the way home to get buns, and I treated myself to a little pot of very good horseradish. 

We came home, and I toasted the buns for our sandwiches and the horseradish was just the small touch of excellence I needed. 


23 comments:

  1. All good things, Debby. I like your perspective, and try to do the same.
    Lovely little maters! Little things like that just gladden the heart.

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    1. The sight of them made my day. I am worried about my peas though. I am not seeing a single blossom.

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  2. We have to carry on and show the goodness and kindness that there is

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    1. Not much else we can do, is there? Raise our voices and be kind.

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  3. Centred and wise people seem a little thin on the ground at the moment. Yes, don't take part in the lie.

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  4. Are you back from your vacation? How did the Cat-man do????

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  5. Sounds like a good plan. Linda in Kansas

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    1. Only plan I can come up with. If you think of a better one, let me know.

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  6. New born tomatoes are just adorable. My one and only tomato plant was a complete fail two years ago. How long do you cook the venison in the crockpot? On high, or low? Good on Tim for fixing the that.

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    1. Congratulations on the tomato babies! I just picked my last tomatoes today. I'm sad that they're done.

      Steak subs sound really good.

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    2. They were very good. Allison, I used a vegetable broth, garlic, onion, peppers, and mushrooms. I left it on high for probably 5 hours. It simmered all day and made a good, good broth that will be used again to make a pot of either cream of turnip soup or French onion soup. I fish the steaks and vegetables out and strain the excess juice back into the crock pot, sliver the meat and serve it on a toasted bun with a nice slice of cheddar. Tim had three! We'll have them for supper tomorrow too. Jennifer, they were a hit at my house.

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    3. Ps...I can't believe your tomatoes are done already, Jennifer. Can you plant another round of them?

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    4. Hey Debbie...I didn't mean to comment as a response to Allison's comment! I was using my phone and I'm sure you know what that's like. Yes, I could plant another round of them...if I had seedlings ready to go, or if any of the stores were still selling young tomato plants. Neither of those things are true, though. Next year I'll plan better for succession planting. But overall it's been a good year for tomatoes. I've picked around 30 pounds of them, not counting cherries!

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  7. I think I need a Diane. . . . . Meanwhile - yay for tomatoes and peppers! I love your interior doors, very similar to the ones we got a few years ago.
    Good for Tim. Not sure what he fixed, but kudos for him for stepping up and doing it!

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  8. Celebrate the small stuff. It was fresh sweet corn and strawberry shortcake at my house.
    Bonnie in Minneapolis

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  9. It's hard to keep your spirits up when so many nasty things are happening and the people who should be looking out for us disappear.

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  10. Spreading kindness in your community is the perfect thing to do, our village is full of kind souls, which pleases us so much.

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  11. I have baby tomatoes too. It is very exciting!

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  12. Seeing lovely things growing is an antidote to the misery so often seen around us.

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  13. Thank you for the reminder, Debby, that even though it all seems so big and unfixable, we can still choose to not be a part of the heat, but a part of the light. My gf's and I have a group text where each day, we post 3 things for which to be grateful. This has changed my attitude so much.

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  14. It would take all or most Americans to be on the same page to have a chance of fixing the mess, but it is a country divided.

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