My kids loved this book and -ahem!- I do a very good Grover imitation. Just a thing you may not know about Debby.
Life's Funny Like That
Friday, January 16, 2026
Reasons to Celebrate
My kids loved this book and -ahem!- I do a very good Grover imitation. Just a thing you may not know about Debby.
Wednesday, January 14, 2026
Fear not.
TJ Sabula's words: "i don't feel as though fate looks upon you often and when it does, you better be ready to seize the opportunity. Today, I think I did that."
Suspended Michigan autoworker who heckled Trump gets outpouring of donations | Michigan | The Guardian https://share.google/xtEHvoI9ltkLwohXO
$335,000 raised so far.
The right calls out his uncivil behavior while defending an administration with a longstanding history of uncivil behavior.
Just a thing i noticed.
Security breech leaks names, addresses, emails, background info on 4500 ICE agents. Big uproar.
Of course, when there was not nearly the outrage over right-wing patriots as they 'swatted' democrats, leaking their information, protesting in front of their homes.
Just a thing I noticed.
Kids are outing their ICE daddies on Tik-Tok. That gives me hope for the future.
The US Department of Labor debuted a new slogan. One nation. One people. One heritage. It has sparked some backlash.
Labor Dept. Debuts Similar Slogan To Famous Nazi Phrase - Comic Sands https://www.comicsands.com/labor-department-nazi-slogan
Kristi Noem displayed her own slogan. 'One of ours. All of yours.'
Kristi Noem 'One of ours, all of yours' controversy explained: Podium photo with Nazi quote goes viral https://share.google/p5ENfKVpcJC69JCTa
That is a threat. We are meant to be afraid.
Don't be.
Tuesday, January 13, 2026
The Meeting of the Minds
This morning, we kind of waited around for the trapper, but we couldn't wait all day. We had a new chimney built for the house by the Amish, and Tim is anxious to get that up in the 'Golden Hours', defined in this instance as the warmest part of the day: afternoon but before it started to get dark
After waiting until nearly 10, we had to go. We needed to get to the gym.
When we came home, I was delighted to see the truck parked in front of the old house. "Drop me off," I said. "I will grab the mail while I am down here."
I made good use of my time while I waited. When I walked to the mailbox, I saw a bit of plastic flapping in the wind. I did a little digging and discovered a package that had been delivered who knows when. The snowplow going by on the road had effectively buried it.
So I dug our package out and rifled through the mail, and my patience was rewarded. After 15 minutes or so, he came walking around the corner of the old house.
The first thing I noticed is that he wasn't a kid. I would guess he was in his 60s. He greeted me cheerfully. I said, "I wanted to talk to you about your exchange with my husband yesterday."
I could tell that he knew exactly what I was talking about but he said, "I didn't mean anything by it."
I said, "Maybe you didn't but let me be really clear. You are here because you were given permission to be here." I pointed to the two white trucks back at the gas well. "You are not the only one. The well tenders will be here. We have a seed collector who will be back there from time to time. We have grandchildren too, and let me tell you , the first time you say anything like that to one of them, you and I will go toe to toe."
He got mad then. "I would never talk like that to a kid!"
"You have no reason to be talking to anybody like that."
"Well, he scared the shit out of me!"
"For ex-military, you don't seem to be very aware of your surroundings. The man did not sneak up on you. He walked right along the stream bank."
He snapped, "I know he wasn't sneaking up on me..." and glared.
I continued, "and as far as the ex-miltary stuff, that doesn't impress me much. That log cabin three doors down? That's my brother in law. He's ex-military. Two driveways down this way? That's my nephew. Injured in Iraq. Up on the hill there? That's another nephew. He did two tours in Afghanistan. Me, myself? I am ex-military too. So don't be pulling that card here."
He changed tactics then. "Listen, I am just a simple trapper..."
"Who needs to have some respect. If that kind of talk is ever repeated, you will not be permitted back."
He did apologize but he also said, "I thought this was S---------'s property!"
Mr ex-military not only has no awareness of his surroundings. Poor bastard can't read a plat map either.
"No," I said. "His property is behind ours."
He said, "well. I apologize. It won't happen again."
I said "I expect it won't," and headed up the hill with the mail.
So...that's done.
Monday, January 12, 2026
Differences
Today, when we got back from the Y, there was a strange truck parked in front of the old house. Tim was not alarmed. Either 'the seed collector' had gotten a new vehicle or it was a trapper we had previously allowed to trap.
I know that some will consider that controversial. I do not have the stomach for trapping. Neither does Tim. That being said, probably between 1/4 to 1/3 of our property had been underwater when we bought it due to beaver activity.
Some folks believe that we have encroached on their territory. The truth is quite the opposite. There is a very large dam way back in woods at the back of an elderly couple's property. The thing is as tall as I am and as the water levels have risen and covered more and more of the property, the beaver have expanded the length of the dam. At this point it would be dangerous to remove in the normal way. As a person chipped away at the dam, the water would begin to rush through. The sheer volume would make it a hazardous endeavor, with a danger of being swept away and pulled under.
Because the beaver have lived an unbothered life, the colony has grown to the point that they had begun to migrate down stream. They set up housekeeping across the road at my sister and brother-in-law's where new dams were torn out again and again, because they were flooding the pasture.
No doubt irritated by the constant interference, the beaver pulled up stakes and crossed under the bridge to our side of the road. We tore out their dams. It is not an easy job, and sometimes they rebuilt over night.
So. We permitted trapping.
Anyway, Tim walked down to the creek to see who it was. I came in to make the coffee that I hadn't had time to make before the trip to the gym.
Before long, Tim was back. "Yeah, it was the trapper." He hung up his coat. "I followed his tracks right in. He didn't hear me. I scared him." He pulled off his boots and set them in the boot tray. "He told me that was a good way to get myself shot..."
I turned from the coffee pot. "Was he trying to be funny???!"
Tim said, "No. He was serious. Said he was ex-military..."
I was shocked. "He said that while he was standing on our property???!!!!"
Tim stared at me a little surprised. His mind works differently than mine. In his mind, the man was all bluff and bluster, and he did not take him seriously.
In my mind, when you have been granted a courtesy from a land owner you have a bit of respect. In my mind, I am sick of people pulling this ''I am ex-military" as if this training makes them something to handle carefully or as if they warrant extra respect. In my mind, it doesn't matter one whit if I think he would actually follow through or not. Do not try to bully or intimidate me or mine on my own place.
I said. "I am going down there to have a word. I am ex-military too if he wants to play that card."
Tim said, "He has gone."
I have been stewing over this all afternoon. It is probably good I had time to think. When I am mad, I have a tendency to run 'hot'. I may say things that I think better of later. Maybe that is what happened here. Maybe Tim did actually startle him. Maybe he just blurted something unfortunate. It happens. I understand that as well as anyone.
Tim and I talked when he got back from some errand running.
"I am still upset about this morning and it is not something I am willing to overlook. What if he had said something like that to a grandson? We need to go to the gym early and get back early, because I am going to be waiting for that young man to check his line. I will give him a chance to explain himself, but if there is any bluff and bluster from him, I am telling him to pull his traps and get off this property."
Tim looked at me mildly. "That's fine," he said.
Sunday, January 11, 2026
Weekend's End
Friday, January 9, 2026
Trump is not a mom, but he is a mother
But that was yesterday and today is today. It has been a quiet day. Raining, temps in the 60s. Most of our snow is gone. Fear not: we have more on the way although I have not heard any reports of it being a snow event.
I went to my first exercise class today, and then walked the track after it was done. I really see that I am so very lucky. I intend to keep it that way. Sun, Tues, Thurs, I do my 5 miles. Mon, Wed, and Fri I do the class and full body workout.
Thelma left a comment with her 'battle song' yesterday. Here is another for your collection. Happy birthday.
Saturday we protest.
Thursday, January 8, 2026
Join Ice
Reasons to Celebrate
Today's shame was an American president accepting another leader's Nobel Peace prize, beaming with pride as if it actually did honor...






